Culprit: Cosmo – Vol. 245, No. 4, (AKA October 2008 Issue); Page: 152
Cosmo discusses some of the various things that may be wrong if your sex life has decreased in your long-term relationship. They give 5 reasons that he may not want you as much, which are: he’s stressed out, he’s pissed of at you, he’s freaked out about commitment, he’s worried about his sack skills and he wants to break up. These are a handful of many good reasons that could cause the sex decline.
Cosmo also lists bogus excuses to watch out for, and that’s where I take issue with the popular magazine. One excuse was, “I have a big day at work tomorrow and need to rest.” They claim this is bogus because climaxing will clear his mind and help him sleep.
J’s advice…Cut Him Some Slack. Unless your man is still in college, he will be fully aware of the tension relief provided by sex; however, when he’s wound up from stress due to work, it causes anxiety about performance. Sex is not always one of the ways that he will want to get this out because, assuming he’s a driven professional, he will only feel better when he accomplishes something. That’s why he may ditch you to go do something active and measurable such as getting more reps out his workout routine. So, don’t be too quick to discount this excuse.
Whew! Glad, I got to the scene before you jumped to a conclusion.
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