Mag Busters: Times You Shouldn’t Text a Guy
Culprit: Cosmo – November 2008 Issue Page: 44
Cosomo consults “relationship expert” Dr. Arlene Krieger, PhD about the times you shouldn’t be texting a guy.
#2: When you’re drunk. “…it’s up to you to stop yourself from sending a tipsy message – especially one that suggests you two meet up ASAP. ‘Being too available lets a guy know he has all the leverage,’ Krieger says.”
J’s Take…If the text is about sex, I’m calling BS on that one. It’s up to you to control what the relationship is. If it’s 2AM and you want some, then you go get you some. In my vast experience, this is one of the few formats that women will verbally express the things that they really want to do to you (drunk or sober); and that is a huge turn-on!
Don’t get caught up in leverage. Those are things college girls worry about. You’re adults. If you both want some, then you’re both getting what you want. The arrangement is what it is. It’s an even exchange for…mmmm…goods.
BTW, if you need a guard against drunk emails, here is my post to a helpful tool.
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I don’t really have that problem but I like that picture you got!