the fact that brunettes give the impression of being exotic, interesting, deep or any of the above mentioned qualities, is just as definite as blondes being younger than brunettes, i keep looking for the logic in what you say but i just can’t find it, with all due respect, it all just sounds like hunches that were somehow injected into some part of the planet population’s systems when they were far too young to notice they weren’t logical.

please, what am i missing here?

It could be that you were so unlike her ex, so much of what she wanted and needed and had craved for a long time that the tears were the only way for that emotion to come out.