…I kept going with my current sexual activities because I thought, “Maybe she’s just really emotional.  That’s good for sex, but not so good for a relationship.”

“Are you ok?” I asked with a heavy breath.
“Yeah,” she whimpered.  “I’m fine.  Don’t stop,” she screamed as she grabbed my butt.
“Do you want me to stop?”
“No! Keep going!” she commanded as she pulled me back down to her.

I was freaked out at this point, and did the best thing I could think of to get out of the situation.   I faked it.  It’s not something I do hardly at all; but I had no idea what else to do without being rude.  My body kept moving with hers.  Finally, I let out a loud moan as she moved her hips around my waist.  I then quickly worked my way down below her waist and began to use my tongue.  She wouldn’t stop crying, and I just wanted it to end as soon as possible.  I concentrated on the job literally right in front of me, so I could make quick work of her.  After about 2 minutes down below, her body shot upright and her legs clamped tightly around my ears.  I know she was satisfied, but I had no idea what I had done wrong.  However, I quickly went to the bathroom to get rid of any evidence that I was a decent actor.

When I came back, we both lied there for a few minutes.  After telling her that I had to be up for 7, I asked if she wanted to stay or go.  She decided to stay, which was fine because I was going to sleep well except for the burning question in my mind.

“Just curious, but what did I do that made you cry?” I asked gently.
“Oh, yeah, I’m sorry about that,” she said somberly.
“It’s ok.  I wanted to know if I did something though,” I said with expectations of a response.
“Well, you see, I’m not exactly that experienced.  You see—,”
All I could think was, “Oh, Lord.  Is she a virgin?” I squinted my eyes expecting the worst.
“Remember how I told you I was divorced?”
“Yes,” I said thinking that I had just had sex with a still married woman.
“Well, he was the only guy I had ever had sex with and we were together for over 8 years.  I guess I wasn’t expecting to have that kind of reaction to you.  I hope I didn’t scare you.”
“No, no,” I responded.  I tried to hide the relief in my voice.

Not much else was said the rest of the night.  We both rolled over and went to bed.  I think she probably felt embarrassed.  I was flat out tired and had a big day ahead of me.

The rest of the week I kept wondering what makes girls so emotional when it comes to sex.  The only thing I can ever come up with is that there is just something about being entered by another person.  Actually, as I just wrote that, it seems to make more sense to me.  Still, she didn’t lose her virginity to me.  I’m sure she had sex with her ex a few thousand times over the 8-year period.  If any of my readers has any ideas about this situation, I’d love to hear your thoughts.

I think eHarmony did a great job of finding two people that had great chemistry together, but I guess there are some things they can’t predict like sexual response.  I’m anxious to use them again though because I’d love to find sex that good again without the virgin tears.